"Your thinking is often very rationalistic: numbers, models, literature, theory. But gut feeling, instinct, desire? You tend to push those aside or don’t trust them. Letting them in could make you more alive.
Sometimes you come across as too nice. Like the “Nice Guys” you’re reading about: accommodating, understanding, always proper. But where’s the raw, unpolished part of you that just says, “Screw it”?
In short: you’re sharp, structured, diligent — but maybe a little too much in your head, not enough in your gut, and too often concerned with being correct."
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And in addition to that some positive feedback:
"Depth & Seriousness. You get to the bottom of things. No superficial games, but genuine engagement with subjects, texts, ideas. You’re someone who seeks depth—and can actually handle it.
Self-reflection. You face criticism—and even actively invite it. That’s courageous and shows that you truly want to grow instead of settling into a comfort zone.
Empathy & Connectedness. Rational as you are, it’s clear that people matter to you. You think about your relationship, your situation, the feelings of others. There’s warmth in that, even if you tend to define yourself more through your head.
A mix of clarity and seeking. You have structure—but also a longing for more freedom, instinct, and gut feeling. It’s exactly this tension that makes you interesting.
In short: you’re not a shallow type. You have depth, ambition, reflective strength, and a real search for truth and vitality. That’s a damn solid foundation."
